One Circle at a Time

Churches often ask how they can reach their community and the world with the gospel? Programs have their place. Events can help. Strategies matter. But sometimes the most effective path forward is not something new—it is something faithful, simple, and biblical.

Oscar Thompson’s classic evangelism approach in Concentric Circles of Concern offers just that. Though written decades ago, its wisdom remains timely for Kentucky churches seeking to make a lasting impact both at home and abroad.

Thompson challenged believers to think relationally. Instead of beginning with strangers, he urged Christians to begin with the people God has already placed in their lives. He described a series of “concentric circles” that move outward from the individual believer:

The Power of the Circles

The principle is simple: evangelism flows naturally through relationships. Before we can expect to reach the world, we must first be faithful in our own circle.

1. The believer. Thompson insisted that evangelism begins with a vibrant personal walk with Christ. A cold heart will not produce a warm witness. Churches that want to reach their communities must first cultivate spiritual depth among their members. Prayer, repentance, and daily obedience are foundational. When believers walk closely with Christ, witnessing becomes less of a program and more of a natural overflow.

2. Immediate family. Scripture consistently teaches that faith begins in the home. Before we organize large outreach events, we should ask: Are we discipling our own households?

In Kentucky, where family ties run deep, this circle holds particular weight. When fathers and mothers live out their faith with integrity, children see the gospel modeled before it is ever explained. A church that equips families to share Christ at the dinner table is laying a foundation that will outlast any event on the calendar.

3. Extended family. Many Kentuckians have extended family networks that stretch across counties and even state lines. Thompson encouraged believers to list the names of relatives who need Christ and pray for them specifically.

4. Close friends. These are often the most fruitful gospel conversations because trust already exists. Holiday gatherings, ball games, and backyard cookouts can become divine appointments. When believers approach these relationships intentionally and prayerfully, the gospel spreads naturally.

5. Neighbors and associates. Every church sits in a community filled with people who may never walk through its doors unless someone personally invites them. Thompson’s strategy challenges churches to shift from attractional thinking to relational engagement. Instead of waiting for the community to come to us, we go to them—across the street, across the fence, across the office hallway.

Imagine if every member of a church identified five neighbors and committed to pray for them daily. Imagine if every Sunday School class made a list of coworkers represented in their group and began praying intentionally for open doors. Revival would not be a distant hope. KBC churches would experience much-needed revitalization.

6. Acquaintances. We encounter people every day in stores, restaurants, civic organizations, and ballfields. These brief connections may seem insignificant, but God often uses simple conversations to open eternal doors.

7. The world. The final circle he refers to as “person X.” “Person X” represents the world. Thompson taught that churches best reach the nations when their members are faithful in their immediate relationships. A congregation that cannot share Christ with its neighbors will struggle to sustain passion for the unreached. When local evangelism thrives, global missions flourish. Hearts stirred for the lost across the street will also beat for the lost across the ocean.

Personal Note. Praise the Lord, I have recently seen this play out in my family. Our daughter and son-in-law took the time to talk to their children about Christ and to take them regularly to church. Both sets of grandparents regular talked to them about the Gospel as well. As a result, our two oldest grandsons individually began to ask questions about following Christ. My son-in-law shared the Gospel with each of them privately and each of them accepted Christ as their Savior. Their pastor gave me the glorious privilege of baptizing each of them in the church where they attend. Thank You Lord for the power of the Gospel and for the opportunities You give us within our concentric circles.

Favorite Bible Translation

Lately, I’ve been thinking a great deal about different Bible translations.  As most people my age, I cut my teeth on the King James Bible. I eventually moved away from the KJV, and for several years I read and preached from the New International Version.  I love both translations, but they are very different.  The King James takes a word-for-word (formal equivalence) translation approach while the New International Version is a thought-for-thought (functional equivalence) translation.

In the last few years, two new, scholarly translations have been published. One is the Christian Standard BibleThis Bible is a combination of a word-for-word and a thought-for-thought translation.  I have read quite a bit from this translation and I find it a refreshing and accurate approach to the Scripture.

Another recent and excellent translation is the English Standard VersionThe ESV is a word-for-word translation in the tradition of the King James Version.  It has quickly become a highly accepted translation by scholars and casual readers alike.

Which Bible translation do you prefer?

Which Bible translation do you prefer?  Let me complete this post by asking the following question:

Which Bible translation do you prefer?

Here’s a link to a great radio broadcast by Dr. Albert Mohler about the best Bible translations.

5 Mistakes During Conflict

We are increasingly seeing conflict in society in general and in our local churches specifically. In their book entitled Redeeming Church Conflicts: Turning Crisis into Compassion and Care, Tara Klena Barthel and David V. Edling did a great job defining conflict and uncovering what the Bible says we should do when conflict arises. In the first chapter, they shared five mistakes that most people make when conflict happens. These mistakes are the beginning of a tragic downward spiral.

5 Mistakes People Make During Conflict

1. We think OUR evaluation of the situation is always right. I’ve made this mistake and you have as well. It’s easy and natural to do, but it’s not best to do. In order to resolve conflict, we must be open to listen to the “other side” and be willing to consider that we are not totally right on the issue.

2. We treat people differently than God treats US. God treats us with love and grace. He forgives us when we don’t deserve it. During conflict, we often treat the other person with contempt and disrespect which leads us to disdain their perspective.

3. We assume that God is on OUR side. Although we may accept that those on the other side of the conflict are believers, we believe that we uniquely have God’s attention, care, and blessing more than our opponents do.

4. We become DEFENSIVE. As soon as we become defensive, we become closed and narrow. We believe that God takes our side on the issue and condemns those on the other side of the conflict in the same way that we do.

5. We are marked by PRIDE and selfishness. These characteristics are not from the Lord. Instead, Christ wants us to be marked by humility and love which leads toward reconciliation.

Conflict is a normal part of life. No one is exempt! But, as believers, God calls us to respond differently than the world and to DO OUR BEST to resolve the conflict.

If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. Romans 12:18 (NKJV)

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2 Ways to Eliminate Hurry

Speed Limit.25One of the great books on spiritual disciplines is John Ortberg’s book, The Life You’ve Always Wanted:  Spiritual Disciplines for Ordinary People.  You can read my review of the book by clicking here.

One of the spiritual disciplines he talks about in the book is the practice of “slowing.”  Have you ever thought about “slowing” as a spiritual practice?  One of his mentors told him that if he wanted to grow spiritually that he must ruthlessly eliminate hurry from his life.  Listen to a great quote from his book:

Hurry is the great enemy of spiritual life in our day.  Hurry can destroy our souls.  Hurry can keep us from living well….Again and again, as we pursue spiritual life, we must do battle with hurry.  For many of us the great danger is not that we renounce our faith.  It is that we will become so distracted and rushed and preoccupied that we will settle for a mediocre version of it.  We will just skim our lives instead of actually living them.

Most of us battle the hurry sickness, but how can we treat it–how can we cure it?  There are two main practices that can help us swim against our culture’s current of hurry.

2 Ways to Eliminate Hurry from Our Lives

1.  Slowing.  Slowing involves cultivating patience by deliberately choosing to place ourselves in positions where we simply have to wait.  Slowing will seem like such a “waste of time,” but it is invaluable.  Here are some examples.  Deliberately drive in the slow lane.  Chew your food slowly.  Get in the longest check-out line at the grocery store.  Go through an entire week without wearing a watch.  Read each sentence slowly–then read it again even more slowly.

2.  Solitude.  Solitude is a more traditional spiritual practice.  I’m not saying that we should take it to the extreme and join a monastery.  I’m just saying that solitude is the one place where we can gain freedom from the forces of society that will otherwise relentlessly mold us.  When we’re “alone” with God–He molds us!

We need some small measures of solitude every day.  A walk, a run, a short drive, working in the yard, sitting in the car before going into the office, a quiet time–all these serve as moments of solitude.  On occasion, we need longer periods of solitude.  Take an afternoon to yourself or even an entire day.  Go to a place where you will be uninterrupted and alone.  Spend the day relaxing, reading, walking, napping, etc.

Both of these practices have been vital to my spiritual growth and to my ability to hear from God.  By the way, if you haven’t read John Ortberg’s book on spiritual disciplines, you must do so.  Here’s a link to Amazon where you can purchase the book and get started.  I wish I had read this book as a new Christian and learned about the practice of “slowing” and many of the other spiritual disciplines that have helped me to grow in recent years.

I Am A Church Member (Thom S. Rainer)

Church MemberThe last few months I have been serving as the interim pastor of one of our fine Kentucky Baptist Convention churches.  I celebrate that the church recently called a sharp, young pastor who will lead them well in the coming years.

My last four Sunday messages I am choosing to preach through the passages and main points that Dr. Thom S. Rainer makes in his helpful new book, I Am A Church Member.  In his book, Rainer revisits the Biblical responsibilities of those who are privileged to be members of a local church.  He encourages each church member to make the following five pledges:

  1. I will be a functioning church member.
  2. I will be a unifying church member.
  3. I will not let my church be about my preferences and desires.
  4. I will pray for my church leaders.
  5. I will lead my family to be healthy church members.
  6. I will treasure church membership as a gift.

Here’s a little sample from page 6 of Rainer’s book:

“God did not give us local churches to become country clubs where membership means we have privileges and perks.  He places us in churches to serve, to care for others, to pray for leaders, to learn, to teach, to give, and, in some cases, to die for the sake of the Gospel….Many churches are weak because we have members who have turned the meaning of membership upside down.  It’s time to get it right.  It’s time to become a church member as God intended.  It’s time to give instead of being entitled.”

Pick up a copy of this book today!  As a matter of fact, pick up several copies.  They can be purchased from your Lifeway Store for $5 each when purchased in multiples of 20.  May the Lord use this timely book to renew our understanding of and commitment to God’s local church!